​​​​​​​​ A post my friend Patrick Bristow wrote the other day inspired me to write. It got me to thinking about the psychology (and sociology) of thought. We live in a world where society and media want to make everything black or white. I'm not speaking to race, but thought and action. I want to address the many many (not 50) shades of grey out there, what I like to call "the in-betweens". For example, we have very stringent sexual harassment law, which in turn also birthed